Thursday, January 16, 2014

The Journey begins

After working in the non-profit industry for 12.5 almost 13 years, I'm taking 3 months off (Mar-Jun 2014) 9 months off (Apr - Dec 2014) to recharge my batteries and satisfy those travel cravings that have built up over time. Through the process of those 12.5 almost 13 years, I changed immigration status multiple times: from being an international student, to becoming a temporary US worker, to self-deporting due to a hole in immigration law, back to becoming a temporary US worker, and now a full immigrant. Five more years and then citizenship. The journey has been long, and the American dream lives on.

As a new immigrant to the United States, I seek to appreciate my new home more and learn about its diversity - culturally and geographically. Living in Virginia, I have traveled to various parts of the US before, but mostly on the East Coast and only for a few days. There is so much of the mid-west to west coast that I yet have to experience. So part of my US travel is being the adventurer and going to areas where I’ve always wanted to go.

The other part is the settler. I’ve lived in Thibodaux, Louisiana for 3-3.5 years of college. I’ve lived in Lexington, Virginia for close to 13 years. Thibodaux has a population size of 14K and Lexington has a population size of 7K. I spent my childhood in Dubai until 1998 when I came to the US to study as an international student. Dubai had a population size of around 750K (1998) and now it is at 2 million (2014). I left at the tipping point of becoming what it is today. Needless to say, but I’m definitely between an urban and suburban guy. While I have lived in small towns for over 16 years and appreciated many of the luxuries a small town offers, I crave metropolitan culture, lifestyle, food, languages, and everything else the bustling city life brings. So finding a new home/new city for the next decade, score, or more to live in and celebrate life is on my priority list. The other part of my travel takes me to Spain. In 2012, I watched a movie called The Way directed by Emilio Estevez and his father Martin Sheen. The movie (which is available on Netflix) left an indelible mark on me to take the journey of St. John Pied de Port (the edge of France) to Santiago de Compostela and then continue to walk to the edge Spain touching the Altantic Ocean.






People on this journey go for different reasons: mid-life crisis, getting over a divorce, quitting smoking, losing weight etc. Mine are two-fold. One, I’ve always wanted to go to Europe and travel. I am at this point in my life where I have no debt, no significant other, and no major obligations to fulfill. Almost complete freedom that I aim to ecstatically enjoy while it is still present. Second, I need to reconnect or rediscover my purpose. Through the varied experiences of my college and employed years I have developed many personal and business skills, and I’m confident and ambitious with my abilities. The real question for me is how to utilize those skills by aligning them with my purpose. I have been feeling disconnected from my purpose - what I am called to fulfill in my existence. I hope that by going on this journey and avoiding the distractions and obligations of ‘organized life’, I can get clarity of my purpose and return to live a purpose driven life moving forward.

I am no longer a religious man, but I definitely swim in the ocean of spirituality. As I wade through my journey please wish me well, send me your good vibes, positive intentions, prayers and wishes in silent form or other. I will hear them (consciously and not), because we are all connected.

I will strive to make every blog post honest and raw as possible. I wish to learn great lessons along the way but also not to be trapped in my own bubble. My journey insights may not just come from just my personal reflection. It can also be revealed through my shared experience with you. You may hold the key to unlocking my struggle with your thoughts and ideas on some of my posts. Or perhaps my journey will be the key that opens a locked door in your life that is filled with alternate opportunities and possibilities. As I mentioned earlier we are all connected in this tapestry of life.

SO LETS DO THIS TOGETHER!

7 comments:

  1. Way to go. thanks for the update. I moved last year from NY to Huntsville Alabama.

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  2. if you make your way here. look me up.

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  3. Can't wait to hear the tales. ~ Bridget

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  4. May Divine Providence guide you on this journey and help you find New Light. - Sunita Patrao

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  5. Wishing you well and sending good karma and positive vibes your way!

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  6. So cool meeting you today! Definitely going to follow you along on your journey. Enjoy the rest of your time in San Diego!

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